International Kids Series – Detective Mike Book Review-

International Kids Series – Detective Mike Book Review-

Expat Women Book Review - Sunshine Soup: Nourishing The Global Soul - Jo Parfitt

Expat Women Book Review - Sunshine Soup: Nourishing The Global Soul - Jo Parfitt

From Sandals to Snowsuites by Jo Parfitt

From Sandals to Snowsuits Posted Sep 12 2010 3:02am (http://www.wellsphere.com/parenting-article/from-sandals-to-snowsuits/1220278)


Having children is tough enough. As a parent myself, with my boys now 17 and 19, I know. But, for us we have had added to the list of potential problems by moving house, and country, every few years.

My husband and I are British. Our boys were born in Dubai, began preschool in Oman, primary school in Norway and then went to two different schools in England before moving aged 12 and 13 to the Netherlands where they, thankfully, stopped moving -- until my eldest went back to London for university.

And when I say it’s been tough, I don’t just mean the physical side of the move, the packing and unpacking of lives, the finding new schools and new houses, new playmates and a new way of being a family. It’s the emotional side of things that can be the biggest challenge.

When we moved to frozen Norway, it was January. In Muscat the weather had been glorious. Sam and Josh had never worn socks, nor vests nor coats and so, when we arrived to blue skies and white roads we went shopping for clothes. We headed out to buy gloves and hats and snowsuits, fur-lined boots and then raingear to wear over the snowsuits. Sam, aged four, had a meltdown. Torn from everything he had ever known, and used to playing outside on the beach every day, he refused to zip up his snowsuit. He also refused to go into enclosed spaces like lifts and movie theatres. Today, his claustrophobia is over and after 14 years in Northern Europe there is no way he would go out without a coat on, but the memory lingers.

Moving with children is difficult. Constant upheaval and moving schools take their toll and though, looking back, for us all, children included, the benefits of our peripatetic life way outweigh the disadvantages, each time there is a new crisis to cope with, that crisis is magnified. It is magnified by issues such as not being familiar with the new country, the language and the bureaucracy. It is compounded by the fact that you have no support from your close family and old friends. You and your immediate family can feel very alone.

This is why it is very helpful for children and parents to educate themselves about what it really means to be global nomads and how this lifestyle will affect their Third Culture Kids (TCKs).

Four books spring to mind that will help you to understand more about the effect of being expatriate.

This year, intercultural trainer and counselor, Simone Costa Eriksson wrote and published a story for children aged 5-10 called Moving Abroad -- The Mission of Detective Mike . In its pages you can follow Mike and his friend Ikem as they explore the reality of Mike’s impending move.

Ruth van Reken grew up abroad herself and her grown children are now doing the same. Her book, co-authored with the late David Pollock, called Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds , explains to parents and grown TCKs everything they need to know about the experience. It combines research, with anecdote and practical advice.

Robin Pascoe, herself a parent of TCKs, wrote Raising Global Nomads , based on her own experience and a comprehensive survey. You will find it practical, insightful and humorous too.

Although she only left school fairly recently, Heidi Sand-Hart has written her memoir, peppered it with poetry, insight, research and anecdotes from her peers and called it Home Keeps Moving .

Before your four-year-old refuses to zip up his snowsuit and you endure the agony of watching him standing alone, cold and wet in the school playground, arm yourself with these books. I wish they had been there for us, when Sam and Josh were small too.

Jo Parfitt runs Summertime Publishing, writes, speaks and publishes books on expatriate issues and specializes in helping expat writers to get published. She runs workshops on writing books, articles and life story both live and online. Pick up a copy of How to Write Your Life Stories at her website: www.joparfitt.com .

Detective Mike Book Review in French

Here you find the lastest book review of The Mission of Detective Mike in French

We appreciate the lovely words about our book. Our mission is to let parents and teachers know about the importance of paying attention to the children´s perspective of moving abroad.

International kids series

New detective Mike Book Review
http:gaijinchic.com/detective-mike-review

Expat Women - Expat Tips - The Science of Anxiety in New Places - Catherine Transler

Expat Women - Expat Tips - The Science of Anxiety in New Places - Catherine Transler

Is there a perfect personality for expats? (Interesting article!)

Worth reading:
http://chronicle.com/article/Is-There-a-Perfect-Personality/126964/

Detective Mike on Dutchnews.com

Although many people won’t remember their first day of school, somewhere in the depths of their minds they know it was terrifying.








Now imagine starting the first day of school again? Over and over again: but each time in a different country, and often in places where the local children don’t speak your language. Welcome to the life of a young expat…







The Mission of Detective Mike: Moving Abroad, helps parents with the difficult job of preparing youngsters for their new adventure, and considers the enormous emotional upheaval by telling a story through the eyes of a character children can relate to: Detective Mike.













Eight year old Mike is moving overseas with his family and has all the normal anxieties about leaving his home and friends behind, but after a chat with his Grandfather he decides to get one step ahead and investigate his soon-to-be new city with his friend, sister and a little help from modern technology.





Using the Internet, the inquisitive trio begin to discover things about their new home before they move, and even manage to make friends with their new classmates on Skype.





It wasn’t that long ago that little thought was given to the long-term effects of uprooting children at such crucial stages in their development, but research now proves there is a need to adequately prepare youngsters for what can be an intensely distressing and unsettling experience.





Psychologist Simone T. Costa Eriksson and children’s author Ana Serra have teamed up to create this delightful self-help book for children and parents and disguised it as a charmingly written story that will strike a chord and give reassurance to any child facing the daunting prospect of a new life abroad.

Shelley Antscherl
http://www.dutchnews.nl/expatpages/books/the_mission_of_detective_mike.php
books@dutchnews.nl

Repotting the Uprooted Child - A teaching tool for third culture children

Susan Adkins speaks with author and International Life Coach Simone T. Costa Eriksson about how to help children transition during a move abroad



Brazilian born businesswoman Simone T. Costa Eriksson was a successful mother of two. She thoroughly enjoyed her work and family, but her life was in perpetual upheaval. Over a span of 13 years, she and her Swedish husband had relocated to five countries on three different continents.



‘I remember often being so frustrated with expatriate life that I could not even plan our future as a family,’ says Simone. Repeatedly uprooting her children and trying to find work in this cultural and linguistic whirlwind was exhausting. She felt particularly discouraged when her older son voiced unhappiness about the frequent moves.



Simone’s quest to overcome these problems led to a portable career as a psychologist and international life coach. Her business in Brazil thrived, but she realized that there were families all over the world in need of guidance with transition issues.



Inspired by her own situation, she found the perfect solution in the form of a children’s book, "The Mission of Detective Mike: Moving Abroad", co-written with award-winning author Ana Serra. It tells of eight-year old Mike’s determined search for information about his upcoming departure to an unfamiliar land. Mike and his best friend Ikem explore move-related questions such as ‘What About My Things?’ and ‘Who Will Disappear?’



Children of expats can identify with Mike and his struggles to understand what is happening to him. The answers Mike finds are illuminating, comforting and empowering. His journey of discovery is meant to inspire kids to ask questions, seek support from adults and to give them a sense of influence on their own experiences.



The loss of familiar faces and surroundings can be frightening for children. By reading Detective Mike, Simone hopes that kids realize that they are never alone in their moves abroad, or in their lives in general. ‘. . .your old friends. . . will not disappear. They are just invisible to our eyes, not our hearts.’ (p.52)



The book is equally instructive for adults, who often struggle to identify with the issues children are having coping with a move abroad. Simone believes that reading about Detective Mike’s questions and concerns will help illuminate for adults how a child views such a transition.



‘By better understanding their perceptions, we, adults, can fill in the gaps with the information children need but seldom ask for,’ says Simone.



Simone continues to expand her understanding of the transitional processes expatriate children experience. She and Ana invite their young readers to e-mail them with ideas and input. Simone anticipates that Mike’s adventures will continue as he grows up and faces different challenges in his life abroad.



Simone’s book, workshops and her enterprise as an International Life Coach have helped many families adjust to life abroad. When asked what one thing parents can do to help their children with an expatriate move, Simone was clear. ‘Respect and validate your children’s unique perception and take the time to explore it with each child separately. Take the time to listen to children’s concerns without making them feel awkward.’



Travel and the inner journey of self-discovery is a familiar metaphor, but in Simone T. Costa Eriksson’s case it is no cliché. She used the challenges of living abroad to transform her career and her life and in doing so found a way.

Voltar a morar no Brasil pode ser traumático (article in Portuguese)

Ao retornar de longas temporadas fora, às vezes, brasileiros precisam de auxílio na readaptação...
Leia mais:  

http://delas.ig.com.br/comportamento/ajuda-para-quem-retorna-ao-brasil-depois-de-anos-morando-fora/n1596846174056.html#comentarios

Reverse Culture Shock Makes Repatriating Stressful for Expats

Reverse Culture Shock Makes Repatriating Stressful for Expats

Psychological and Physical Symptoms of Culture Shock

Useful information for all Expats: Psychological and Physical Symptoms of Culture Shock

Detective Mike Moving Abroad - Book Review

A book for TCKs only:
http://www.expatarrivals.com/article/repotting-the-uprooted-child-a-teaching-tool-for-third-culture-children

An interview about the book: The Mission of Detective Mike Moving Abroad

Our publisher Jo Parfit, from Summertime Publishing has just posted an interview about the challenges of writing for expat children:

http://www.joparfitt.com/2011/03/author-to-author-meet-simone-costa-eriksson-of-the-mission-of-detective-mike-moving-abroad/

Jo has given us a great support! Thank you.

Interculturalplus Services

We are currently offering these services in Campinas:

1-Expat Arrival Services such as Orientation in Campinas and Region, Househunting in coorperation of various real state companies and a complete assistance after moving into a new house.

2-Intercultural trainings and workshops

3-Intercultural Coaching for executives, spouses and teenagers (TCKs)

New Interculturalplus Blog

The focus of this Blog is to discuss the 4 main areas:

1. The Challenges of Expat Families


2. Exchange experiences on how to raise Third Culture Kids (TCKs)


3. The Brazilian Way of Living and Working


4. The Experience of Being a Foreigner in Brazil